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Custody case cost tracker (free spreadsheet + printable).
Keep every bill in your custody case in one place: attorney invoices, retainer deposits, court and filing fees, mediation and copies, with what was billed, what you paid and where each invoice is kept. The spreadsheet adds up the money columns for you. No sign-up, no email.
What’s in the tracker
If money is being used to control, pressure or threaten you, safety planning comes first. Keep records only if it is safe for you. A tracker on a shared phone, computer or cloud account can put you at risk if someone else opens it. A local domestic violence advocate can help you decide whether and how to keep records.
If you’re in danger, call 911. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788 (thehotline.org).
Twelve columns, one row per bill or fee. The same columns are in the spreadsheet and the printable.
- DateThe date on the invoice, receipt or fee notice.
- Billed byWho sent the bill: the attorney or firm, the court, a mediator, an evaluator, a process server.
- What it was forOne plain line, copied from the invoice where you can, for example “Filing fee, motion” or “Phone call and email review.”
- CategoryAttorney time, retainer deposit, court or filing fee, service of papers, mediation, evaluator or expert, copies or records, travel, or other. The spreadsheet offers these as a dropdown, and you can type your own.
- HoursOnly if the invoice lists them. Leave it blank otherwise.
- RateOnly if the invoice lists it.
- Amount billedWhat the invoice or fee notice says, exactly.
- Amount paidWhat you actually paid. A partial payment is fine: enter what you paid.
- Date paidThe day the payment went out.
- Retainer balance (from statement)If a statement shows what is left of a retainer, copy that number. Don’t calculate it yourself.
- Invoice / receipt (where it’s kept)The exact place: which folder, email account or box. Keep the invoice itself.
- NotesAn invoice number, a fee-waiver form if you filed one, a question you asked about the bill and the answer.
Looking for help with custody legal fees?
There’s no single national program that pays for custody cases. What’s available depends on your state, your court and your income. These are places people commonly ask:
- A legal aid organization in your stateSome offer free or low-cost help in family cases for people under an income limit. Case types accepted, availability and wait times vary.
- Your court’s self-help centerStaff can explain forms and steps. They can’t represent you or tell you what to do in your case.
- The clerk, about fee waiversMany courts let people ask to waive or reduce filing fees if they meet that court’s rules. Ask the clerk or self-help center whether your court has a fee-waiver process and which form, if any, it uses.
- Limited-scope (unbundled) helpWhere the state allows it, some attorneys will take one task, such as reviewing a document or coaching you before a hearing, for a set fee or by the hour.
- The state bar’s lawyer referral serviceSome referral services offer a first consultation at a reduced fee.
- Law school clinics and court mediation programsSome law schools run family-law clinics, and some courts offer mediation at no cost or on a sliding scale.
Whether any of these fits your situation is a question for them, or for a licensed attorney where you live. This page doesn’t estimate what a case costs or say whether any cost can be recovered from the other parent.
How to fill it in
Record-keeping tips only. They don’t say whether any bill is reasonable or what to do about it.
- One row per bill or fee.Enter it the day it arrives. A year of invoices is much harder to rebuild later.
- Copy, don’t estimate.Hours, rates and amounts come straight from the invoice or receipt. If something is unclear, ask whoever sent it.
- Keep every invoice and receipt.Save the PDF or a photo, keep the original if you can, and write exactly where it lives.
- Copy the retainer balance from the statement.If a statement shows what is left of a retainer, copy that number. The tracker doesn’t work it out for you.
- Note fee-waiver papers too.If you file a fee-waiver form, add a row with no amount and a note of the date and where the copy is kept.
- Let the sheet do the math.The Total row adds Amount billed and Amount paid. Filter by Category or Billed by to see one kind of cost.
- Bring organized papers to paid time.Time spent sorting documents can cost money. Some people use an attorney handoff checklist and send non-urgent questions together in one email.
More free tools for the same job
- Attorney handoff packet checklist: what to bring a lawyer so paid time goes to advice, not sorting.
- Co-parenting expense tracker, for child costs such as medical bills, school and childcare.
- Custody evidence tracker, for texts, photos, emails and records.
- Free hearing-prep plan: a week-by-week organization checklist up to your hearing date.
Questions about tracking custody case costs
What should a custody case cost tracker include?
One row per bill or fee: the date, who billed it, what it was for, a category, the hours and rate if the invoice lists them, the amount billed, the amount paid and when, the retainer balance shown on the statement, and where the invoice or receipt is kept. This tracker has those columns. It copies what your invoices say; it doesn’t judge any bill.
Is the cost tracker free?
Yes. Both files are free downloads with no signup and no email. The spreadsheet opens in Excel, Google Sheets, Apple Numbers and LibreOffice.
Does it add up the totals for me?
Yes. The spreadsheet has a Total row under the blank rows that adds Amount billed and Amount paid with plain SUM formulas, which also work in Google Sheets and Numbers. It is arithmetic only. The retainer balance is copied from your statement, not calculated.
Where can I ask about help with custody legal fees?
Options vary by state and by income. Places people commonly ask include a legal aid organization in their state, the court’s self-help center, the clerk (about whether a fee waiver is available for court filing fees), the state bar’s lawyer referral service, law school clinics, and attorneys who offer limited-scope help with one task. Whether any of these fits your case is a question for them or a licensed attorney where you live.
Is my information uploaded anywhere?
No. These are blank files you download. What you type stays in the file on your device, unless you choose to save it to a cloud service yourself. If someone else can open your phone, computer or cloud account, keep the tracker somewhere only you can reach.
Is this legal or financial advice?
No. This is a record-keeping template. It doesn’t estimate what a case costs, say whether a bill is reasonable, or say whether any cost can be recovered from the other parent. For that, ask whoever sent the bill, your court’s self-help center, or a licensed attorney where you live.
A record-keeping template, not legal or financial advice and not a court form. For advice about your situation, talk with a licensed attorney where you live. More free downloads are on the free templates page.
Start free, upgrade only if you need it.
The free Custody Commander plan keeps your case files and their details together in one place: up to 10 evidence items and 1 GB of storage, where you can date, describe, tag and search each item, read the text out of a screenshot for you to check against the image, and download a numbered PDF list (watermarked on the free plan). It includes 6 AI actions to try things (one-time, not monthly), needs no card and never expires. Paid plans add unlimited evidence items and exports without the watermark, and a hardship program is listed on the pricing page.
Free plan with no card, or try Full Suite free for 7 days (card required; cancel before it ends and you pay nothing). Self-help software, not legal advice.