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Custody journal template (free PDF + Word).
Dated daily pages for keeping your own record of parenting time, exchanges, the children’s day and anything that happens: the time, what you saw and heard, who was there, your child’s words exactly as said, and where related items (texts, photos, notices) are saved. Facts only, written the same day. No sign-up, no email.
What’s in the template
Write it as if someone else will read it. Notes you keep about a family court matter may be requested by the other side or shown in court, depending on where you live and how they are used. Write only facts you would be comfortable having read aloud, and ask a licensed attorney where you live how journals and notes are treated in your court.
If there is abuse or a protective order, safety comes first. Keep this journal somewhere the other person cannot find or read it. If a protective or no-contact order is in place, its terms come first; don’t use the journal to contact anyone. A local domestic violence advocate can help with safety planning, and our guide to safety planning during a custody case covers the basics.
If you’re in danger, call 911. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788 (thehotline.org).
Page 1 has the writing tips and a filled-in example entry. Pages 2 to 8 are dated daily pages. The PDF and the Word file have the same pages.
- Date and where the child wasA line at the top of each daily page for the date, the day and where your child was that day.
- TimeWhen it happened, written the same day.
- What happenedWhat you saw and heard, in plain words, without guesses about why.
- Who was thereEveryone present, including other adults and the children.
- Child’s words, exactlyOnly if your child said something: the exact words in quotation marks.
- Related items savedWhat you saved (a text, a photo, a school notice) and where you keep it.
- Other notes for the dayLines for school, health, sleep and schedule notes.
How to keep it
Writing tips only. They don’t say what to write about the other parent, what to file, or how a court will see anything; your court’s rules and a licensed attorney where you live can answer that.
- Same day, with the time.Same-day notes are easier to keep accurate than notes written from memory weeks later.
- What you saw and heard.Leave out guesses about why, labels and diagnoses.
- Your child’s exact words.Write them in quotation marks with the time. Don’t question your child to fill the journal.
- Where related items are.Note what you saved and where it is kept, not just that it exists.
- Ordinary days too.Log the days that went well. A complete record is easier to follow.
- Keep it away from your child.Never ask your child to help with it or read it.
- Corrections as new notes.If you need to correct something, add a new dated note instead of rewriting an earlier page.
More free guides and templates
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- Parenting time tracker: scheduled vs actual overnights in Excel.
- Custody evidence tracker: one row per saved item, with where the original is kept.
- All free tools: browser tools and templates, no sign-up.
Questions about the custody journal template
What is a custody journal?
A dated, written record you keep yourself of parenting time, exchanges, the children’s day and anything that happens that relates to them: when it happened, what you saw and heard, who was there, and where any related items are saved. Many parents keep one on paper; others keep it in an app.
What does this template include?
A first page with writing tips, a safety note and a filled-in example entry, then seven dated daily pages. Each daily page has columns for the time, what happened, who was there, your child’s words exactly as said, and where related items (texts, photos, notices) are saved, plus lines for other notes about the day.
Can I use a journal in court?
Whether and how a journal or notes are used depends on your court and your situation, and notes you keep may be requested by the other side. Write only facts you would be comfortable having read aloud, and ask a licensed attorney where you live how journals are treated in your court.
Is the custody journal template free?
Yes. The PDF and the Word file are free downloads with no signup and no email. The Word file opens in Microsoft Word, Google Docs, Apple Pages and LibreOffice. Print as many daily pages as you need.
What if there is abuse or a protective order?
Keep the journal somewhere the other person cannot find or read it, and follow the terms of any protective or no-contact order. A local domestic violence advocate can help with safety planning. If you’re in danger, call 911. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788.
Is this legal advice?
No. It is a template for keeping your own dated record. It doesn’t tell you what to write about the other parent, what to file, or how a court will view anything. For advice about your situation, talk with a licensed attorney where you live.
A template for your own record, not legal advice and not a court form. For advice about your situation, talk with a licensed attorney where you live. More free downloads are on the free templates page.
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